Reason #1: She has very little will power

I know this may seem obvious, but many women are good natured - but in certain situations,
she just doesn’t have the mental strength to stop her urges.

In other words, it’s just like a overweight woman who wants to lose weight. She doesn’t
want to over-eat, it’s just difficult for her to suppress her urges.

Basically if there is an urge, she’ll act on it – regardless of what her conscious
intentions are.

Remember, sex is an urge (just like eating is an urge). So if some guy
(especially a skilled guy) gets her to experience a Sexual Itch, PLUS she is alone
with him (or there is an opportunity to be alone with him at some point), a woman
with low will power probably doesn't stand a chance.

She won't even see it coming. (or maybe she will)

Let's get to the science behind it.

Here’s how it works from a very basic stand point.

Lisa wants to screw Bob.
Lisa is in a relationship with Jim.
Lisa doesn’t want to hurt Jim.

So what happens?

Result: Lisa screws Bob and doesn’t tell Jim!

(Simple Logic)

(Remember: This is a Behavior Pattern that she has been using over and over again since she was a little girl. Pay attention to the structure. Little 3 year old Sue eats all the cookies that were on the table. Mommie asks her if she did it. And Little Sue 'The Good Girl' says: "No Ma Ma. I didn't do it." - except she has crumbs all over cheeks)

But time has passed...

Now she is a pro!

(But not an evil person.)

(Besides, don't you think cute little Sue wanted to follow Mommie's rules?)

CR James Quote:

"If a person has the desire to be percieved as a good person, it doesn't mean they automatically have Will Power (Mental Strength)"


At any rate, whenever you get in a relationship, you must pay attention to her Level of
Will Power.

That means, you'll need to pay attention to all areas of her life where Will Power is needed. And then make your evaluation.

Get out your pencil now and write down her Will Power Score...

[Be as honest as humanly possible]

On a scale of 1 to 10 (10 being very strong-willed; 1 having absolutely no will power) write down her
Will Power Level.

The following may help you come up with her Will Power Score:

Does she stick to her goals?
Does she struggle with goals?
Does she rarely do what she says she is going to do?
Does she have any addictive behaviors?
Does she procrastinate?

Reason #2: She can be easily persuaded.

She can be easily persuaded be others (gullible / naive) – At first glance, it may seem like this characteristic is the same as the first one, but it’s not.

It is a form of mental weakness, but it's totally different.

The first one has to do with a lack of self-control, and this one deals with how
easily her perception can be changed by others.

For example, I know a woman who gets up at 5:00 AM in the morning and jogs for
5 miles – even on days when she’s just not up to it.

And if she walked into the local convenient store to get some water, she could glide passed the chocolate donut case with no problem (even though her bodily urges are screaming at her
to take a bite).

Basically, her Will Power is Iron Strong!

BUT – if the store owner told her that those were magic donuts that would make
her run faster and lose an instant 5 pounds, she would actually believe him in a heartbeat!

"Wow! I've never seen magic donuts before!"

Do you see the difference?

Good.

I want you to think about her Level of “Gullible-ness”.

[Be as honest as humanly possible]

On a scale of 1 to 10 (10 being hard-to-persuade; 1 being extremely gullible) write down her Persuade-able Level.

The following may help you come up with her Persuade-able Score:

Is she easy to play tricks on?
Has she ever believed something completely dumb (as a prank)?
Is she clueless to guy’s intentions with her?